家长让孩子保护自己,让孩子喂自己吃零食,让孩子照顾自己的情绪,家长自己躺倒做婴儿,向孩子索取关爱,这是精神乱伦。
精神乱伦造成孩子的焦虑,乱伦多了,孩子会莫名的紧张,比如抽动症,就是常年累积焦虑紧张的结果。
孩子也会时而躁狂,一点小事儿做不好就发脾气。因为精神乱伦让孩子不清楚自己的现实位置,没有边界感,所以动不动自恋受挫。一会觉得自己无所不能,一会崩溃不已。
孩子天然不幼稚,边界清晰的养育下,婴儿都拥有干净的逻辑智力。幼稚的,是成年人……展开全文
“父母无恩,老贼有罪”。父母不对子女享有天然的不可更改的“养育之恩”。历史已经做出了决定,非自卫的故意杀人都是犯罪,无论以何种方式。生而不养就等于杀了这个婴儿,是犯罪。生育者没有选择不养的权利,养育是责任,而非恩情。但至今那些自称最爱他们的子女的那些父母,却拿着已经不存在的养育之恩道德绑架他们的子女,打压他们子女的自由意志,妄图随意捏造子女的人生。这种亲人无亲近可言,他们是老而不死的贼,是毒亲。
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Refering to https://allthetropes.org/wiki/My_Beloved_Smother , the parents couldn’t enjoy natural and unchangeable “kindness-to-repay of fostering” toward their children as traditional Chinese morality suggests. The history has judged that non-self-defensive murder is a crime, no matter how, so giving birth to a child without fostering them is not different than killing them, which is a crime. Those who have children do not have the right not to foster them. Fostering is an obligation, not a kindness-to-repay. However, many parents self-praised to love their children with all their heart are hijacking morality with the nonexistent “kindness-to-repay of fostering” to condemn their children, beating down their children’s free will, vainly attempting to fabricate their children’s life. Such parents are not parental. They are moribund harmful old scoundrels. They are “beloved smothers”.
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