01 屁大的意外,天崩的惩罚
@镶金小炮弹:今早送娃上学路上,一个四五年级的女孩大哭,她爸爸一直在怒吼她,原因是卷子忘记带了怕老师说她不敢进校门。哎,家长和老师配合得很默契了。
@李雪爱与自由:男友投资股市,有一次很好的加仓机会,本来按照我们的判断,这个时候是应该加重仓的,结果却没有。我问他为何没加仓,他说前两天的走势跟他预期相反,亏了不少钱,然后他就慌乱了,开始怀疑自己的判断,动作猥琐,没敢大加仓。
做投资有亏有赚是必然的,事实跟预期不符也是时常发生,没有次次都预期准确的股神。重点是,当预期错误,人能否逻辑干净,只根据当下的事实重新判断。也是经济学说的理性经济人,不考虑沉没成本。
然而从小到大,学校老师和家长,都在教孩子什么呢:孩子忘带卷子了,老师批评孩子,孩子不敢进学校,家长怒骂孩子。
没有一个成年人在解决问题,都卡在情绪中,朝孩子发泄情绪。孩子感觉到发生屁大的意外,自己都得去死,什么也做不了。
—— 孩子的逻辑智力就这样被肢解,孩子的脑子开始混沌,动不动就死机,活着活着,就活成了活着没劲的扁平人。展开全文
“父母无恩,老贼有罪”。父母不对子女享有天然的不可更改的“养育之恩”。历史已经做出了决定,非自卫的故意杀人都是犯罪,无论以何种方式。生而不养就等于杀了这个婴儿,是犯罪。生育者没有选择不养的权利,养育是责任,而非恩情。但至今那些自称最爱他们的子女的那些父母,却拿着已经不存在的养育之恩道德绑架他们的子女,打压他们子女的自由意志,妄图随意捏造子女的人生。这种亲人无亲近可言,他们是老而不死的贼,是毒亲。
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Refering to https://allthetropes.org/wiki/My_Beloved_Smother , the parents couldn’t enjoy natural and unchangeable “kindness-to-repay of fostering” toward their children as traditional Chinese morality suggests. The history has judged that non-self-defensive murder is a crime, no matter how, so giving birth to a child without fostering them is not different than killing them, which is a crime. Those who have children do not have the right not to foster them. Fostering is an obligation, not a kindness-to-repay. However, many parents self-praised to love their children with all their heart are hijacking morality with the nonexistent “kindness-to-repay of fostering” to condemn their children, beating down their children’s free will, vainly attempting to fabricate their children’s life. Such parents are not parental. They are moribund harmful old scoundrels. They are “beloved smothers”.
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