短视频上刷到一位妈妈,带女儿坐火车,特地给她买无座车票。
火车过道狭窄拥挤,小女孩屈着腿靠在座椅旁,吃饭时端着泡面坐在行李箱上,还要时不时避让路过的乘客,看上去有些窘迫。
这位家长的视频配文是——
“有困难要上,没有困难创造困难也要上。无座慢车,给我好几个白眼,下次继续。”
显然,小女孩吃的苦,倒不是因为坐了一趟无座慢车有多辛苦,而是家长刻意“创造”出来的苦。
原本可以舒舒服服完成的旅途,却被打造成了一次吃苦教育的实践。
在这段实践中,我们看到的只有一个一厢情愿的家长,和一个心怀不满的孩子。
而这,恰恰正是无数中式家庭吃苦教育现状的缩影……展开全文
“父母无恩,老贼有罪”。父母不对子女享有天然的不可更改的“养育之恩”。历史已经做出了决定,非自卫的故意杀人都是犯罪,无论以何种方式。生而不养就等于杀了这个婴儿,是犯罪。生育者没有选择不养的权利,养育是责任,而非恩情。但至今那些自称最爱他们的子女的那些父母,却拿着已经不存在的养育之恩道德绑架他们的子女,打压他们子女的自由意志,妄图随意捏造子女的人生。这种亲人无亲近可言,他们是老而不死的贼,是毒亲。
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Refering to https://allthetropes.org/wiki/My_Beloved_Smother , the parents couldn’t enjoy natural and unchangeable “kindness-to-repay of fostering” toward their children as traditional Chinese morality suggests. The history has judged that non-self-defensive murder is a crime, no matter how, so giving birth to a child without fostering them is not different than killing them, which is a crime. Those who have children do not have the right not to foster them. Fostering is an obligation, not a kindness-to-repay. However, many parents self-praised to love their children with all their heart are hijacking morality with the nonexistent “kindness-to-repay of fostering” to condemn their children, beating down their children’s free will, vainly attempting to fabricate their children’s life. Such parents are not parental. They are moribund harmful old scoundrels. They are “beloved smothers”.
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