近日,在上海南汇一所中学的学生,在写下的遗书跳楼身亡,此前,她把自己3万块压岁钱整理好放在桌子上;半夜,她踩着自己房间的榻榻米跳了下去,还在榻榻米上留下字条,值得所有父母深思。
她在遗书中表达了和父母相识一场的荣幸,但紧接着又表示,如果有来生,但愿不再相见。因为,父母喜欢的是班级前十,年级前二十的女儿,是经常要考满分的女儿,她觉得自己不是父母真心喜欢的女儿,她根本达不到父母的“完美”要求。
因为她的偶尔“语文六十多分,数学七十多分,英语八十多分”,经常在家受到“最肮脏”的辱骂,脸、手背、手臂、大腿以及后背也经常被父母体罚,有时还会使用皮带和电线抽打她,最侮辱人的是,让她穿着拖鞋,站在屋外,面向大家示众。
她这个遗书是对所有鸡娃家长的控诉,其中在末尾有一句话这样说的:“毁掉一个人很简单,只需要毁掉她的童年。你们已经毁了我,请好好善待弟弟吧,请收手这种伤害。”
人生一趟,遇见你们我很荣幸,若有来生,我们不要再见面了,想想也没什么,你们爱的不是我,是冲进班级前十的我,是排名年级前二十的我,是考到满分的我,你们心目中的完美女儿太优秀,我达不到……阅读全文
“父母无恩,老贼有罪”。父母不对子女享有天然的不可更改的“养育之恩”。历史已经做出了决定,非自卫的故意杀人都是犯罪,无论以何种方式。生而不养就等于杀了这个婴儿,是犯罪。生育者没有选择不养的权利,养育是责任,而非恩情。但至今那些自称最爱他们的子女的那些父母,却拿着已经不存在的养育之恩道德绑架他们的子女,打压他们子女的自由意志,妄图随意捏造子女的人生。这种亲人无亲近可言,他们是老而不死的贼,是毒亲。
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Refering to https://allthetropes.org/wiki/My_Beloved_Smother , the parents couldn’t enjoy natural and unchangeable “kindness-to-repay of fostering” toward their children as traditional Chinese morality suggests. The history has judged that non-self-defensive murder is a crime, no matter how, so giving birth to a child without fostering them is not different than killing them, which is a crime. Those who have children do not have the right not to foster them. Fostering is an obligation, not a kindness-to-repay. However, many parents self-praised to love their children with all their heart are hijacking morality with the nonexistent “kindness-to-repay of fostering” to condemn their children, beating down their children’s free will, vainly attempting to fabricate their children’s life. Such parents are not parental. They are moribund harmful old scoundrels. They are “beloved smothers”.
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