我最近被女友和她妈妈之间的互动,给戳到了。 她们几乎每天都会聊天、通话,像闺蜜一样无话不谈。我们刚认识时,她就大方分享自己刚认识了一个不错的男生,在甜甜地恋爱。假如很久不见面,她们会彼此在视频中倾诉心事、自然地表达想念,说:「我好想你」。遇到节日或生日,则会互相祝福:「亲...

我最近被女友和她妈妈之间的互动,给戳到了。

她们几乎每天都会聊天、通话,像闺蜜一样无话不谈。我们刚认识时,她就大方分享自己刚认识了一个不错的男生,在甜甜地恋爱。假如很久不见面,她们会彼此在视频中倾诉心事、自然地表达想念,说:「我好想你」。遇到节日或生日,则会互相祝福:「亲爱的妈妈/宝贝女儿节日快乐,我永远爱你」。

不知道你怎么看待这样的亲情,反正作为旁观者我大受震撼。因为相比之下,我应该永远无法和我妈进行如此亲密的交流和相处。当她在电话里交待说天气转凉多穿点,我甚至连“你也要保重好自己”都无法说出口,最后只会变成一句冷淡的“哦哦知道了”。至于“我想你,我爱你”这种话,这辈子恐怕都难以启齿……展开全文

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“父母无恩,老贼有罪”。父母不对子女享有天然的不可更改的“养育之恩”。历史已经做出了决定,非自卫的故意杀人都是犯罪,无论以何种方式。生而不养就等于杀了这个婴儿,是犯罪。生育者没有选择不养的权利,养育是责任,而非恩情。但至今那些自称最爱他们的子女的那些父母,却拿着已经不存在的养育之恩道德绑架他们的子女,打压他们子女的自由意志,妄图随意捏造子女的人生。这种亲人无亲近可言,他们是老而不死的贼,是毒亲。

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Refering to https://allthetropes.org/wiki/My_Beloved_Smother , the parents couldn’t enjoy natural and unchangeable “kindness-to-repay of fostering” toward their children as traditional Chinese morality suggests. The history has judged that non-self-defensive murder is a crime, no matter how, so giving birth to a child without fostering them is not different than killing them, which is a crime. Those who have children do not have the right not to foster them. Fostering is an obligation, not a kindness-to-repay. However, many parents self-praised to love their children with all their heart are hijacking morality with the nonexistent “kindness-to-repay of fostering” to condemn their children, beating down their children’s free will, vainly attempting to fabricate their children’s life. Such parents are not parental. They are moribund harmful old scoundrels. They are “beloved smothers”.

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